I Received a message on my recon account from a handsome White guy. He was a rugged bearish type.
He sent a message wishing we were closer.
I replied back returning the sentiment.
Interested in learning more about this guy; I went to his profile.
He had three or four galleries of pics from the internet that depicted things he was into.
One gallery had different types of play. Another was one that featured Black men dominating twink white boys. Humiliation of these white guys was key in the themes along with the whole Black Alpha concept for the interracial gallery.
One of the galleries featured rednecks.
I went back to my messages to find a new message from this guy.
“I love Black dick.” He responded.
I replied, “For me, that is not the compliment that it may seem. I would have preferred you notice another characteristic instead.”
I looked at another message that I received from someone else.
When I went back to see if he responded to our conversation, I couldn’t f find the messages. Obviously he must have blocked me.
I am becoming more in tune to knowing those who don’t like us.
1. Profiles that appear to have Black men as the “superiors” to white men. Although it may appear to be an ideal of admiration, often it is a fetishization. And we are often the target of the “entertain me with this” charge so many White “submissives” impose. ( Not to say that every situation is like this. There are always exceptions to a rule.)
2. Rednecks that have lots of symbols of what they consider “patriotic.” especially pictures of cowboys with the confederate flag subtly in view.
3. Terms such as I love Black dick.
This term for ME is problematic because in my view, it reduces the Black experience down to a piece of dick. It allows the author not to recognize the person but the body part.
There is a vast difference between “I’m usually attracted more to Black guys,” and “I love black dick.”
4. When the messenger responds to the recipient’s correction by blocking instead of opening up opportunities for a conversation it speaks volumes of who they are.
So. Tell me you want to play the race game without telling me you want to play the race game. 🤡
I'd like to think that some people make comments like that without really thinking how offensive it really is. But to actually block you rather than clarify what he really meant does speak volumes about his character. I understand he just wants to hook up and get off with some physical attribute that excites him and be on his way to the next conquest. But for me, it's more about the total package and not one particular body part. Even looking at X porn sites. If all they show are men's dick's it does nothing for me at all. I want to see the man behind that dick. I like to know or even just fantasize something about who that person really is beyond what he has between his legs. Even if it is just a quick hook up. Personality, intelligence and self-confidence are more likely to get my juices flowing.
ReplyDeleteI am pretty good at reading people. And who doesn't like being objectified even a little bit. But it is all in how one does it. Like If you mentioned to me that you wanted my Black dick, Wham! Black dick on your forehead! That's because We have talked and we have built some type of a rapport with one another. (By the way I am looking forward to the day you say,"Gimme that Big Black Dick so I can so graciously smack you repeatedly across the jaw with it. I would say until you lose consciousness, but I have to so many other plans for Mr. M if and when.)
DeleteYou just managed to put the biggest smile across my face, Sir!!
DeleteI am glad to hear that. Since I can't put what I really want on your face, I will most definitely settle with a smile. :-)
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