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SIR
Before it was a fetish
It was just what I used
Out of respect.
Want to freak a sub out?
Call him Sir.
For me It has less to do
With Dominance and submission.
What It comes down to
Is respect.
As much as I get hard
When being called "Daddy"
It is "Sir" that hits way different.
Yes. “Sir”can be a form of fetish.
But before that,
It’s common respect.
“SIR” is a whole other level of respect.
And yes, there is a difference between
Sir, and SIR.
So much to say
So little space.
The word "sir" is not one you will hear me use lightly. Whether I say it or write it the word is very powerful, in my mind, the ultimate sign of respect and that respect you must earn and is not freely given. Not simply because you might be dominant in the moment. Perhaps I place too much importance on it but sometimes words are all we have.
ReplyDeleteSo very true. And yes "Sir" is definitely something to be earned.
DeleteAnd to me it has very little if anything to do with dominance or submission.
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