THE HATER BATOR

MAY 19, 2025

Monday 

About 7am

LINK: AN OPEN LETTER

As I was going through my blog posts and checking my comments, I notice I received a reply on one of my entries from an anonymous poster.

You wrote:

"*YAWN*. Just... embarrassing. To dudes in general. I cringe at this so-fucking-stereotypical FRUITCAKE HOMO display. From the stereotypical homo-sounding lisps and effeminate manners and all that... to the hairless-like-an-infant tweaker shaving mess yall got going on... just gross. Fuck dude, grow a few pairs, glue em on. Act like fucking normal men."

Well. 

Since you started it, I'm going to finish it.

You brought your freaky little ass to my blog.

I didn't put a gun to your head and tell you to come to my blog and jack yourself to oblivion only to get masturbator's guilt for doing so.  I also find it hard to believe that you happened to have stumbled on my blog by accident, especially seeing the number of times you visited in the history.

I was going to ignore your desperate cry for attention (most likely stemming from a lack of it from your own family members.) But  I figured why not entertain stupid for a short moment while I have some free time.

You mentioned how cringe it is for two men in general to be engaged in "Homo display," and yet you somehow found yourself with you Peter out being totally "disgusted" by what you came here to see.  That is special!

Oh, and thank you for pointing out our homo sounding lisps and effeminate mannerisms.  It is not something I work on displaying.  It just comes out naturally for me.  Sometimes I even Sashay!

And guess who comes to my blog for it?

I would give you a hint but since you don't have the balls to even have a profile name, I will have to call you Anon. 

To all my anon readers who either read in stealth mode because of your own personal situations, or just prefer to be low-key,  I got you. This is in no way a dig to you.  This goes out to my Hater Bators who shame and make fun of gay people in the day and put their pink panties on in the dark of night because they think by being hateful towards us will make the mainstream oblivious to who they really are.

News flash: 

It just reveals your own personal demons.

I was going to christen you The Horny Hater.  You know, "straight" men who come to gay porn sites to scoff at how gross two men butt fucking is; all the while, fantasizing about getting their backs blown by those same homosexuals.  Apply laughing track here.  

I wrestled and wrestled with two monikers. "The Horny Hater" or "The Hater Bator."

The Hater Bator won.  It just has a better flow in my opinion.

I hope if you do decide to try to step up again and poke your little chest out, you will at least use the new name bestowed upon you.  It is my gift to you. One fudge packer to another.

Clap back. 

I openly invite it.  

Please do.  

Just understand every time you do respond. 

I win.

Even if you come back with the hardest clap back. 

I win.

Every time you even visit my page (most likely under some guise.)

I win.

Why?

Because you prove just how rent free I live in your head. 

Like many Hip Hop poets have chanted throughout history, "You a fan!"

P.S.

Don't forget to erase your internet history and cache so that your wife doesn't find out you like dirty gay erotica and pictures.

Hugs and kisses

Mark A.K.A.

Your Daddy ❤️

OPEN LETTER TO SCOOB

 It’s coming close to a year since I played with you.  I had a great time last time. That red lace lingerie still gets me hard ever time I watch the video of me fucking you in it.  I look forward to getting you in your new rubber outfit. I especially look forward to seeing pup in his puppy mask. Although it is still some time away, I look forward to bring the doggy out of my boy once again. 

I am not sure how often you visit the blog if any these days.  Yes, I could have easily sent you a message via telegram.  But I wanted to send a special message here to solidify our Daddy Dog / horny pup dynamic. Whether you get this message or not really doesn't matter. At some point if I don't hear back, I will eventually share all that needs to be shared before we meet again.

I understand you have life, work and a wonderful significant other that takes precedence over any get togethers you may have.  But when you have the time, I want you to work on stretching your hole with your toys. And when we meet up I would like for you to bring a few. Small to large. 

Although I have played with toys in the past I have yet to use anything larger than my medium sized toys. I am interested in not only pushing your boundaries but pushing mine as well and seeing how far I will go with using bigger toys on subs.

Last but not least. When we do meet, first thing I want you to do when you get into the room is close the door, strip butt naked, and get on your knees. Do not say one word until I allow. The only thing you need to bring are a few small to large toys, your new rubber outfit, and your puppy hood. Maybe one pair of sexy panties or thong. 

I look forward to seeing you again.

Until then…

DEAR MR M.

 June 10, 2024

          Monday            

          5:50PM

Link: OPEN LETTER

Dear Gary M,

You have no idea, NO FUCKING IDEA how much I needed to hear those words.  Maybe you do know a bit too well that need. Whatever the case, I want you to know how much I fucking appreciate the hell out of you.

If we were to walk past each other on the sidewalk, I would probably greet you with a friendly "hello," and keep on about my day not even knowing that you are the man that made my fucking day with your encouragement.

All I can say is thank you and I appreciate you. 

Thank you for bringing sunshine to my cloudy day.

Again

Thank you.

Mark.

WHEN AND IF

FEBRUARY 4, 2024
    Link: BLUE EYES
        OPEN LETTER 
        
Cuando estés listo para obedecer, lo más probable es que estaré aquí.

No te estaré esperando, pero estaré disponible si la situación es apropiada.

Hasta ahora mi opinión es que la sumisión es algo así como una novedad. Una fantasía tal vez provocada por tu inversión en la lectura de historias y novelas bdsm. Tal vez incluso viendo porno pervertido.
Nada de lo cual es malo en sí mismo.

Sin embargo, mi proceso exige más una disposición mental para obedecer. Esta obediencia no se debe simplemente a que “yo lo dije”.

Debe derivar de una confianza total en que tengo lo mejor para ti y tengo algo alucinante para que experimentes.

Me dijiste: "Realmente quiero ser tu esclavo".

Si eso es realmente cierto; La tarea que os encomendé anoche se habría completado sin demora porque un esclavo entiende que somete la propiedad de su cuerpo a su amo.

Entiendo totalmente que eres extraordinariamente nuevo en toda esta escena. Entiendo que estás literalmente recién salido de un estilo de vida en el que estás solo con mujeres. Entiendo que aunque tengas deseos profundos, ningún otro hombre te ha tocado. También soy consciente de que confesaste que eres tímido y cohibido por ser "gordito", como dices. También sé que existe una barrera del idioma con la que debemos lidiar. (Espero que mientras escribo esto, la traducción no resulte confusa.

Hay mucho con qué trabajar. Estoy dispuesto a ser paciente. Estaré dispuesto a tomarme el tiempo para ayudarte a llegar "allí". Pero será necesario que confíes en mí lo suficiente como para cumplir cuando te pida que hagas algo. También requerirá que usted se esfuerce para que esta dinámica funcione.

English Translation 

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THE INITIATION OF BLUE EYES

 LINK: THE INITIATION

         December 28, 2023

                            2:04pm

A few days ago I received a cruise on my Recon account from a very good looking man.  His name will not be disclosed and the only description I will give for now is his blue eyes(with a possible hint of green??) and infections smile.  Anyone who knows me knows I love a man with a gorgeous smile.

He has recently come out and he wants to experience what it is like to be with another man.  He mentioned that he doesn't have any experience

but has read a lot about BDSM.

I don't know how much he has read, nor do I know what he has read.  My job is to find out what he has read.  

Is it information on kink? Are they novels? Sexy stories?  What exactly has he read and what does he see BDSM as?

The one thing I do know is he is very new to the scene.  His profile was just created last month. English is not his first language. And out of all of the men on Recon, he chose me.

"Today I was watching some of your videos and reading your blog.  The guys that are with you are very lucky.  My first time should be with someone like you. You are very patient and respectful," he said.

Some of our conversation was through me using the English to Spanish translator until he requested for me not to.

"I hope the translation is good," I answered. 

"Even I think is better for me if you write in English, I can learn more," he replied.

We had a lot more to say; however, I will leave those things between Blue Eyes and myself.

8:37pm 

After work I wanted him to text me after he had time to relax and unwind.  

"NowI'm home Sir," he texted.

"Good boy."

"Are you relaxed," I questioned.

"Yes Sir."

"Are you alone?"

"Yes Sir I am," he responded.

"What are you wearing?"

"Jeans and a t shirt.  Why Sir?"

"I want you to go to a comfortable spot; either a couch or the bed in your bedroom.  Take off your pants,"I ordered.

"Yes Sir,"

"Let me know when they are off."

"I did it," he replied.

"Are you in bed?"

"Yes Sir," he replied.

"What are you thinking right now?"

"I'm curious what's gonna happen," he said.

"I feel safe with you.  I don't know why but I really feel safe," he mentioned.

"I cannot be there in body, but I can be there in mind."

"Thank you Sir.  I can feel you here."

I had him take his t shirt off and I guided him how I wanted him to masturbate himself.

Prior to him pleasuring himself I asked if he liked his body and if he felt sexy.

He thought his body was okay but he didn't feel sexy. 

It took some time to get him there but he slowly found arousal in himself.

Today he mentioned that since some radical changes in his relationship status and life in general, it was difficult to get hard, but last night was very easy for him.  This arousal did not come from me alone. As a matter of fact; I was just there to guide this handsome gentleman.  The key to his arousal was to see just how desirable he is to others but most of all for him to see the sexiness in himself.

OPEN LETTER

Blue Eyes,

I guess by now you have figured out your new name.  It came to me today when I was looking at your pictures.  

You asked, "What makes a man like you consider being with someone like me?"

Well I will tell you what I find extraordinarily sexy about you and let you figure out the rest.

1. Your blue eyes. The way your eyes literally pop out of the screen . They are so sexy. That is why you are Blue Eyes.

2.  Your eagerness to learn. You ask questions. You are curious and not afraid to explore.

3. Obedience.  I instructed you to take your clothes off and get on the bed and do as I told you and you did it with no hesitation. You trusted that I had something pleasant in store for you and you received your reward.

4. Every strand of hair on your legs. I could sniff every part of your body. And most likely I will.

5. Your gentle spirit. We've touched on this last night so you already know.

I know you are very eager for us to meet. So am I. I assure you when the time comes for us to do so I will make sure you are taken care of and that you and I both have a great time. But for now, the important thing is for you to be sexy and be confident that you are sexy. That is the only way I want to have you.