TODAY'S PICK: MACK'S

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Today's pick is MACK'S. Although I just posted today, I am still working on focusing on this one.  It is on my night on the town In SF.  There was so much fun to be had back in the day. This recounts my time with a man I call The Leather Guy

Every now and then there is a sex session in which the chemistry is on fire. This is the one for me.

MACK FOLSOM PRISON (PART 1)

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FACT 40: PUBLIC SPANKING SESSIONS

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 My first time spanking in front of others, I wouldn't say I didn't like it, but I felt very self-conscious about it.  I had spanked often in the privacy of my home. But being in kinky spaces and events, I was among people with way more experience, so I found myself feeling somewhat like I needed to walk on eggshells as not to do something to show my lack of experience. What I've learned is that no-one was critiquing my play (although I felt that way.) Some were just watching out of entertainment. The others were too busy doing their own kinky things (minding their own business.)

My first public flogging, I felt similar.  Instead of critique I did get good advice on how to safely handle the sub during flogging and a lesson on how to have more control over the floggger. Correction isn't a bad thing. It helps one grow as a kinkster.  

When I am in a setting now where others are at play, I enjoy it.  Sometimes I get advice that strengthens my skill so both I and the sub have a better time.   Sometimes when it is a hot session, crowds will look on and enjoy the show.  It can be quite the ego boost.  Also it is a good business card. I can't tell you the number of times a sub has come up to me or a Dom to the sub I was playing with and asked to play later.  Sometimes fellow Kinksters will come to you for kink wisdom which is always a confidence boost.

GETTING OUT OF THE FUNK

 June 10, 2026

     Wednesday

           4:07PM

I have taken off my pants.  I have my black ball cap on, black t-shirt, my Hanes tighty whities, white ankle socks and a comfortable pair of slippers on.

I'm not horny much, nor do I feel very sexy.  To be honest, I haven't felt sexy in over two months, before  having to get treated for an STI.  I still have one more visit as a follow up.  

I have met a few interesting guys on Scruff.  

Because I am focusing more on broadening my social circle, I am matching profiles that state "friends with benefits."  Focusing more on the friend aspect.  

I have so far had three different meet ups.  All parities have agreed to meet up to chat before doing any hooking up.  I wouldn't play anyway until after I know for certain I am clear.

Although the weather is warm enough to strip down to the attire mentioned, it is not the main reason.  

I feel like writing and when I'm writing, I prefer to do it in my underwear.

Writing in minimal clothing or in my PJs does bring an erotic element to the atmosphere. Writing and gearing up even when I don't feel sexy or in the mood often helps to get me out of a funk.

Right now the funk is rather deep.  There's this feeling of being an untouchable until I know my status, there is also the weight gain.  

I have gained every pound back and then some.  Getting back into the groove has been challenging. And then there is the lack of privacy that has also put a huge damper on my me time.

Today I made myself sit down and write; not because I feel I need to post something, but to get back to expressing myself.  It is the one thing that makes me feel sexy, even if I am writing about something totally non-sex related.

It is the one therapy I have when I'm dealing with life and it's ups and downs.

But for now I just want to write. and see where it takes me.

FACT 39

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