FACT 39

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FACT #38

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Today on my AMA online I was asked my 5 top kinks and 5 top places to have sex.

(Again I apologize for accidentally ignoring the AMA)

So This was a pretty hard question to answer because I love so much.

Here it goes in no particular order.

Favorite 5 kinks

1. Spanking- I love turning butt cheeks red.  That is my fore play and sometimes after play as well.

2. Oral training - Nothing like stuffing a nice warm mouth with something whether it's my fingers, my dick or any other objects.  Your mouth will be filled.

3. underwear - I have a fetish for underwear.  There are the classic tighty whites and jockstraps.  I always tell a sub to strip to his underwear when he gets into the room.  Also I am taking your underwear and not giving them back.  I am the ultimate underwear bully.

4. Lately I have been turned on by lingerie.  I am not really turned on to men who dress like women fully as I am attracted to a blend of Masculine and Feminine energy.  A good example: a man that has his tradition masculine look but may have lace panties, garter lingerie, or fishnet stockings.  That turns me into a beast every time.

5. I have to do six because there is really more to me than 5.  Number five is Water Sports.  I love it on him in him and sometimes on me as well.

6. Flogging -I love getting guys in that type of intense headspace.

5 places to have sex.

1. A hotel room - I like hotels because the are for the most part clean and comfortable.

2. Motel room - Yes there is a difference. A motel is cheaper, it is not as comfortable and clean as a hotel but sometimes you just want that seedy atmosphere .

3. A sling - Slings are perfect for sex. On a bed you have to maneuver and twist your body for a good position.  With a sling, it is a much easier access.  It allows for less time trying to get the right angle allowing to fuck longer and harder and deeper.

4. A Back yard - It is open enough for outdoor sex but still private enough.

5. Actually I believe that is it for my favorite places.

   
   

   And there are plenty of honorable mentions.

FACT # 37

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I don't  like bananas But I love sliced banana in my cereal. Oh, and banana pudding!😋

I hate tomatoes but love sun-dried tomatoes . And ketchup!

I Love eggs but hate every egg that is not either scrambled or an omelet.

Contradictions or just picky?🤷🏽‍♂️

 

FACT #36

FACT# 36

      When it happens

I make a noisy bottom. 

Quite loud.

Sorry neighbors.

FACT # 35

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I'm fully aware of what the color red states in Kink.  And though I am more inclined to flag only the colors in my repertoire.  This red jock.

This fucking red jock!

I make the exception.

FACT # 34

FACT #34

One doesn't need to write if he has nothing to say.

Yet here I am at the keyboard anyway.

Way before the keyboard, there was always a pen and pad close by.  Not much has changed but the technology. 

I would write more right now.  But it is seriously time for bed.

FACT # 33

 FACT # 33

I have been noticing a decrease in ejaculation lately.  

I still get horny.  It still stays hard, (for the most part) but when I come, I used to ooze a lot.  The flow doesn't seem as heavy.  I've been doing some online research.  

A few possibilities that I see are: 

Age:

I read that coming can decrease as we age.  

Maybe. 

But I just don't see that at 54.  I have spilled a great deal of seed in my lifetime. Could I have possibly drained the well dry?

I doubt it's a medical condition nor do I take meds. 

Low testosterone: 

Maybe. 

There haven't been any signs to my knowledge.

Psychological factors:

Now we're getting somewhere!

Last year and this year has been a rollercoaster with my dad, dealing with my sister, taking care of my husband and just life in general.

Maybe it is nothing to be concerned about. I do miss my huge loads, however.

FACT 32

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       Originally posted on my previous blog.

FACT # 31

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I've cuffed, disciplined, spanked, and blew the back out of 6'4" steak and potato eatin' mofos.  I've eased them down with passionate aftercare only to turn over and play little spoon while sleeping.

Daddies and boys cum in all shapes and sizes. 

Literally. 😏

FACT # 30 THE THIN LINE BETWEEN ART AND PORN

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The line between art and porn has always been a thin one (not to mention controversial as well.)  I have resolved to express myself whether those lines have been crossed or not because I am an adult.  And if my expression is adult material; That makes my actions synonymous to what I am.  An adult.

Sincerely,

A Grown Ass Man

Express yourself

FACT# 29 SIR

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SIR

Before it was a fetish 

It was just what I used 

Out of respect.

Want to freak a sub out?

Call him Sir.

For me It has less to do 

With Dominance and submission.

What It comes down to 

Is respect.

As much as I get hard 

When being called "Daddy"

It is "Sir" that hits way different.

Yes. “Sir”can be a form of fetish. 

But before that, 

It’s common respect.

“SIR” is a whole other level of respect.

And yes, there is a difference between 

Sir, and SIR.

So much to say

So little space.

FACT # 28

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The greatest sex organ is the mind.  If one isn't allowed inside one's head, getting in one's pants is fruitless for me. 

Usually. 

I stress that because hot primitive sex has its place for me, sometimes as well.

There are "not so good" experiences, "alright" experiences and "outstanding."  The experiences where both parties have taken the time to find out those hot buttons is what makes the chemistry fire for me.

Not saying a hot hook up can't happen.  But taking time to discover how to drive your partner crazy: Priceless.

FACT 27: SEEING RED

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Red is one of my least favorite colors. 

But there is something very fascinating about an atmosphere ambient with red light.

Walk into any bar, club or room with ambient red light, and you know some sh*t is going down.

FACT #26

FACT #26

 I still have my locs (2015 - 2021) stored away.

I do plan on finally ridding myself of them. But it will entail a bonfire, and a moment of peace and silence. 

Hey Siri, look up “How to start a bonfire!”

FACT #25 SLUTS

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Daddies, Sirs, Masters, Alphas etc.

ARE ALL SLUTS.

Next time we have our hands around your neck, on the bed, spread eagle, spit in your face and tell you what a dirty slut you are; Remember. 

We’re just projecting.

We just wired a lil differently. That’s all.

But u didn't hear it from me.

🤐😏

FACT # 24 THE TWO BEDS

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Links:THE SPANKING BED

          THE FUCK BED

Whenever I get a room I usually request one with two beds.  One I call The Spanking Bed and the other I call The Fuck Bed.  

The Spanking bed is where my spanking, flogging and impact play happens.  

The Fuck Bed is where I break out the toys, dildos, beads and of course fucking. It is the bed that I use my black lube resistant sheets on. Also any piss play that may happen is on that bed to protect the spreads.

Both beds serve wonderfully kinky purposes and sometimes the play between impact and play that requires lube, intertwine which can sometimes be mind blowing. 

FACT #23

Fact # 23

I hardly ever play a record, cd, or any collective album from start to finish.  I usually pick a few random songs that play in rotation before finding another song on that album to discover.  I have CD's I've had for years with songs I'm just discovering.  It's like finding an unknown treasure.

There are only three albums I've ever played from beginning to end:

Thriller - Michael Jackson

1999 - Prince

And just recently last year,

Tapestry - Carole King

FACT #22

 Fact # 22: 

Not a real cowboy.

But fully capable to take down a Bull.

FACT 21

FACT  #21 No matter how much I shower, I have a slight musk that won’t go away.  It is heightened when I’m sexually aroused.  Before hooking up I would air out in my boxers in front of the fan until I realized most of the guys were obsessed with my pits and crotch.What once was one man’s insecurity = another’s aphrodisiac.

FACT #20

Okay so I got teased constantly about this.

FACT #20

I do own other colored clothing other than black. lol

After constantly being teased and nudged to lighten up my wardrobe I went through a melancholy period for years. I just wasn’t happy. I could never put my finger on why. It was when I went back to wearing more earth tones and black that I started getting out of that funk. And yes my side of the closet IS color coordinated.( Probably the only organization in our entire home.)