November 17, 2024
Sunday
Link: LOGAN ARROW
I'm listening to my Sunday Music as I leisurely clean up my room. I'm not on any set mission. If the room gets organized today or not, there's no worries. Cleaning and organizing is more of a therapeutic past time. Since Sundays are usually chill time for me, I make no deadlines nor do I focus on getting anything done.
Logan was in town Friday and I stopped by his motel to say hi and give him the pup hood that I promised him. We sat and talked for a bit and then we took a walk around midtown.
He is one of the few contacts that has kept in contact to see how I am doing. When I was in my funk, he messaged me numerous times.
One message:
"Hey, you get down to S. Cali and you good?"
Another a few days later:
"Checking in again seeing if you're ok."
"If there's anything I can do tell me..."
There are actually a few guys that I chat with that have offered an ear.
There is a unique difference however, between a buddy that offers his ear and occasionally sends a picture of him rock hard or his butt hole hungry for attention and someone who doesn't quite know what to say or how to be supportive but wants to make sure I know that he is there.
I appreciate both parties. I know right now, Pole nor Hole is really on my list. It is actually refreshing to just talk with Logan and it not have to have any sexual tone. And yes we did discuss a few of his encounters which I enjoyed talking to him about. That fact that we can talk about everything and the kitchen sink lets me see intentions that reach further than dirty talk, sex, or anything related to it.
Sex buddies are great and have their place in our lives. But someone that actually thinks about us as a real person not just a sex toy. That's someone we can call a friend, and they are few and far between. They may even be a sex friend but there's a deeper appreciation that goes beyond the bedroom. Those are the people in our lives to cherish.
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