Not sure how kinky or non kinky this makes me. But an inquiring reader, Gary M, wanted to know. It's kind of interesting reading 60% Switch.
Although physically I'm not there yet, I do entertain the thought of bottoming more; however with very little to no desire to be submissive. Unless he is totally good at getting me in that headspace.
Age Player kinda surprised me. Now looking at it the Daddy / boy dynamic does often put us both in different age headspaces.
Well this is me! LOL
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
96% Dominant
95% Primal (Hunter)
94% Rigger
84% Voyeur
75% Non-monogamist
63% Sadist
60% Switch
59% Daddy/Mommy
57% Exhibitionist
56% Primal (Prey)
49% Master/Mistress
49% Owner
39% Vanilla
37% Ageplayer
36% Experimentalist
28% Brat tamer
28% Degrader
24% Submissive
21% Pet
14% Masochist
13% Rope bunny
0% Brat
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Slave
This is just interesting. How we see ourselves compared to how others see us What it all truly means is highly subjective.
ReplyDeleteMy results but I only included the top eight. The only ones which actually seemed relevant.
93% switch
82% rigger
81% rope bunny
75% experimentalist
74% sub
68% dom
63% brat
60% degradee
Oh my you are a fun one! See I find yours interesting. I guess hearing all of the accounts with you and Felching Pisser had me thinking you leaned more on the submissive side. Which goes to show; we will never get through all the layers on one human being. There are so many facets and we are ever expanding that one box just won't do. And honestly I wouldn't have it any other way.
DeleteYou are absolutely correct, Mark. One box would never work for me either. I am fortunate that I have the ability to assume so many varied roles and be totally and completely satisfied. It's all about the person I am with. That chemistry or dynamics dictates how I adapt to any encounter. You've read how I am with FP and you naturally assumed that's how I always am. FP is one hell of a fuck machine but a very thoughtful considerate fucker. He is always aware of how the other person is feeling and never takes advantage of them. It's so easy to let yourself go and give yourself over to his powerful persona and I enjoy every minute of it immensely. Then there was a relationship I had with someone who was a total bottom. He absolutely wanted to be dominated...seeing that look of lust and ecstasy as I plowed his ass was always such a powerful turn on for me. I was completely satisfied. As you can see some very different and opposite scenarios. Sex can be so amazing if you keep an open mind and a willingness to open that door to the endless possibilities for mutual fulfillment. Living outside that box is what makes it all worthwhile
DeleteGoodness yess!
DeleteI need to adopt me a Gary M. But I'm assuming they are a very rare breed. lol