"You are a fun dom..."
I am not going to correct him. At least not yet.
I'm pretty sure he knows what he is doing.
I don't get hung up on honorifics, titles or "What to address me as"
but I do observe behaviors and patterns.
And I keep that shit filed in my bullshit folder.
I may or may not use it against him
depending on how much I want to invest into this one
and how worth it he makes the investment.
He's either very clever or incredibly naive. If it's even worth a response on your part, I hope he can handle just how much "fun" you can truly be when you put your mind to it. That moment you pull off your belt and snap that leather and his eyes open wide...
ReplyDeleteSo. We did actually play this Tuesday. He had a great time as did I. It is not uncommon, however for a certain demographic to test out a Player's Dominance or to use lowercase in referring to a Dom especially one of color. Whether the "sub" does it intentionally or subconsciously, it is a pattern that I am very familiar with. It is not just a case of oversensitivity neither. It is something that One with a certain experience can spot a mile away.
DeleteI am not one to take or demand respect. I expect one to have that in tact once he steps in the door. One of the reasons I mentioned if I was going to invest or if it is worth investing is I know he lives out of town and him. being a regular in most likely not in the book. however it may be worth doing a bit of a probe to confirm or not